Summer & Kids
As the end of another school year quickly
approaches, I look ahead to the summer I'll spend with my three children. I
feel so fortunate to have this time with them, the lazy hazy days of summer.
Where we lounge around in pjs far too late, eat breakfast in the backyard, and
then spend most of the day playing. This year I hope to be more organized with
planning play dates and day trips, as last year I tried to cram loads of fun
into the last few weeks of summer. This summer will be bitter sweet for me, as it's
the last time I have with my daughter home before she begins her educational
journey. As the baby of the family, and Mommy’s only girl, we have a strong
bond that has been fortified with all the time we’ve spent home together. I
enrolled her in preschool this year, two days per week, to allow her to
socialize with other children and to help her become accustomed to time away
from me. She's grown immensely, and I feel she'll be great in kindergarten next
year…Mommy, however, might not do so well!
Anyways, because the Fall brings big change for
our family, it's important to me to make the most of this summer with my kids.
I grew up in a family with educators for
parents- my mom was a teacher, and dad was a principal. I was fortunate my
entire life to have both of my parents home for the summer, along with
Christmas and March break. They didn't have to worry about childcare
arrangements or taking time off for fun summer activities and family trips. Of
course, as a child I took this for granted and didn't realize how lucky I was.
When I chat with friends who are interviewing babysitters for the summer, or
looking into full time daycares, or summer camps, I realize just how lucky I
am. I don't know how much longer I'll have summers off, and I can't imagine how
we’ll juggle our schedules and childcare when I do have a full time job outside
of the home.
There are a number of fabulous camps for
children, either run through the city or by private organizations. Many of them
even have before and after care programs for children whose parents work
early/late. The wide array of themes to choose from for summer camps is
incredible, everything from science camp (check out Elephant thoughts, my eight
year old loved it!), to art camp, baseball camp, circus camp, and dance camp.
The outdoor camps are great for children to acquire a deeper appreciation for
nature and the environment. They can hone their wilderness skills, learning how
to identify specific plant types, paddle a canoe, and much more, all while
including the fun activities camps are known for- crafts and interactive games.
Camp Tiffin is a great one, located at the Tiffin Centre for Conservation.
Perhaps you've decided to go another route for
childcare, and have someone come into your home to take care of your kids. My
teenage years were spent babysitting for families whose parents were busy
working during the summer months. I absolutely loved having the responsibility
of taking care of the same children each day, and then having weekends and
evenings off. It allowed me to form a great relationship with the kids, and
enjoy the summer weather going to parks, walks, mini golf, and other fun
activities, but I still had a social life- very important at that age!
If you
haven't been able to line up childcare yet, and are stuck where to look,
kijiji, Facebook mom groups, churches, and schools are great places to look. Of
course you'll want to interview, check references, and observe them with your
own children, but these are good starting points for your search. Churches may
have a youth group with young people looking for summer employment, high school
and university students will also be looking for work, especially if their
field of interest is education or childcare.
Perhaps you're fortunate enough to have family members
who can care for your children while you work! I'm particularly envious of
friends whose parents live nearby and are willing and able to offset the cost
of childcare, and jump in when needed. There is something really nice and
special about children spending quality time with their grandparents. They get
to know them well, feel more comfortable with them, and studies have proven
that it has a positive affect on the grandparents’ mental and physical health,
as well. Win, win!
There are so many options out there for summer
childcare, each one with its own list of pros and cons. Children have fun
pretty much wherever they find themselves, making new friends, running,
playing, enjoying the sunshine. Wherever your family life and job finds you
this summer, enjoy the beautiful weather, the family time as it comes, and the
knowledge that you don't (hopefully) have to pack lunches again until September
5th.
Happy Summer!
B.
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